Doing love marriage in India is very much difficult and hard for the families to accept. So most of the couples try to elope and get married. But we all must accept that the results of eloping can be dangerous for the couple as well as families. But the other side of eloping can be relaxing and give you freedom from all the heavy expenses and the tension of arranging everything.
So let’s have a look at some of the pros and cons and Eloping and also the aftermaths of it:
Pros:
It Costs Less than a Traditional Wedding. As most of the arranged weddings are very much loud and costs a lot.
You Can Do Your Wedding Your Way. You don’t have to those rituals which you feel are not at all necessary and can enjoy the wedding according to your own way.
Elope and do the honeymoon at the same location. This is also a way to save money and time. Elope to your favorite and location get married there and enjoy your honeymoon there itself.
It’s romantic as well as the least stressful. You don’t have to worry about all the guests and arrangements that need to be done on time.
Cons:
It might not feel as special as it should be with all the family members and loved ones beside you to share your joy on the special occasion of marriage.
You might not share your joy, happiness, and sadness with your loved ones especially your parents and siblings you waited so long to see you dressed up as bride and groom.
It hurts the sentiments of your parents. Parents gave birth and have lots of their dreams attached to us. So hurting them for our happiness is not at all a wise idea.
You might feel emotionally weak at several points of the wedding and remember your loved ones.
Aftermath:
You will have face the mixed reaction of both the families. Some might be against you some might internally support you but no one will support you openly because of the fear of getting scolded and dragged in all this matter. Your parents will be hurt and might break all their ties with you in a heat of the moment.
So think wisely before eloping and do all your research and preparations for it. Be ready for the aftermath as well.
